THE FEED
Things worth saying, filed by how much it cost to say them.
Same rule as everything else here. First person, never second. Nobody is going to explain the joke.
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I've Started Saying No. Turns Out It's a Skill.
My old boundary strategy was to say yes until I physically could not, then go dark for two weeks. The goal is not a wall. It is a gate with a working lock.
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I'm Not Flaky. I'm at 12%.
Flaky is uncommitted. What actually happened is that I had a finite amount of charge, spent most of it getting there, and used the rest to get home.